First Time Cat Owner? Here's What You Need To Know

As a cat certified behavior consultant and a longtime cat parent of two, I've seen a ton of advice floating around about caring for our furry friends. But let’s be real: it is not all good advice!

The best people to ask would be those who have firsthand experience with cat ownership and have overcome the challenges faced by first-time cat owners. So, I asked, "What’s the top tip you would offer to a new cat owner?" The responses from actual pet parents are heartfelt, emotionally genuine, and full of wisdom.

• It's a Lifelong Commitment: Before you consider bringing a cat home, know that this is a long-term relationship. We're talking about 10 to 20 years of companionship. Through every good and bad point in your life - every move, every relationship- every job - you need to understand that they are your responsibility. Your kitty is counting on you through thick and thin.

  
  

• Everyone counts: A new cat needs to be a discussion with the whole family and considerations for existing pets are essential. If you currently have some challenges going on at home such as behavior issues in pets, an elderly/sick pet, or financial struggles bringing in a new pet may not be the best idea and should be considered again at a better time.
  

• Find the Right Match: When you're on the hunt for your new companion, take the time to meet different cats - heck, even check out multiple rescues or take multiple trips. Sometimes the one that steals your heart isn’t the one you had in mind. Get to know the quirky personalities of all ages kittens, adults and seniors—there’s a special connection waiting for you!
  

• Unconditional Love: Love your cat for exactly who they are, even if they’re not the cuddly companion you imagined. Some cats might never warm up to guests or be the lap cat you hoped for—and that’s totally fine. Your job is to love them in the way they need! Be sure to tell them this often.

  
  

• Expect the Unexpected: Get ready for surprises! Your new cat might show different behaviors or health issues once they settle in. Be patient, give them time, and roll with the punches. Almost every pet owner can share a story about some unexpected event in their lifetime.

  
  

• Be Financially Ready: Look into pet insurance or set up an emergency fund for vet visits. Health issues can pop up at any time, even in young cats, so it’s smart to be prepared. PLUS budget for those annual and bi-annual visits too in addition to regular costs with food, treats, toys, litter, enrichment etc.

  
  

• Meet Their Basic Needs: Make sure your cat has everything they need—a good diet, regular vet check-ups, fun toys, and cozy spots to nap. Their happiness depends on how well you take care of them!
  

• Keep Them Safe: Be cautious because cats can find trouble in the most unexpected places! Check their toys and keep an eye out for anything small that could be a choking hazard. Additionally, keeping your cat inside (unless supervised safely outside in a catio or on leash harness) is the best way you can protect them from outdoor dangers (predators, cars, extreme weather) - just be sure to provide them with plenty of cat things to do!
  

• Spay and neuter your cats! Even if they are indoor only or are the only pet because beyond pregnancy, there are health issues that can arise (the cost of caring for multiple kittens or a medical emergency is FAR more expensive and stressful than a spay/neuter surgery).
  

• Regular Vet Visits are Key: Vet care isn’t just a one-time thing—it’s a regular part of life. Cats are great at hiding when something’s off, so don’t let minor issues slip by. Start carrier training and cooperative care prep (brushing, nail trims and mock exams) early on to avoid these being stressful for your cat later down the road.
  

• Fur is Part of the Package: Get ready for some fur on your clothes and the occasional feline audience during your bathroom breaks. With a cat in your life, your home will always feel warm and inviting.

• Give yourself Grace: As pet owners we do our best but everyone makes mistakes while they learn how to navigate this pathway. If challenges arise, don't panic - seek support - there are ways of navigating hard things.
  

• Management and positive reinforcement are the best ways to deal with behavior problems. If you need help talk with your vet or find a certified behavior specialist to help you navigate the issues. Punishment is NOT the answer.
  

• A Rollercoaster of Emotions: Cats can bring you joy and heartache, steal your heart, and sometimes break it. Cherish every moment you have together, and when times get tough, love them fiercely right to the end. And be sure to have a plan (just in case) for you feline companion(s) incase anything should happen to you so that your family, friends or caregivers know how to care for them. Spoken from the hearts of real caregivers, we hope these tips help you get ready for your new companion! Bringing a cat (or two!) into your home is such an exciting adventure. Have you heard any good advice? We’d love to hear your thoughts!

  
  
  
  

  A huge thanks to all the families who contributed to this post by sharing their own experiences to help others!